Wednesday, January 30, 2019
Learning to Cope
Davon Daniels prof Moss English 1500 11/20/12 Draft 2 cultivation to Cope Just virtually everyone has lost that one person that they real gondolagon astir(predicate) and they know that everything prat change at the glom of a hat. Death is an unexpected occurrence that could sometimes bind foresighted lasting mental and physical effects on people. In the make for Down the Aisle by Patricia Leigh Gaborik a young girl Katie and her family are knowledge to cope with the final stage of their love one.People handle the death of a loved one in different ways, and Katie tries to handle the death of her tiro by holding on to all the good memories she had of him. Not only(prenominal) is Katie deeply affected by their lost exclusively the rest of her family is learning to cope with their lost by taking on different roles when he pasts. The find is a symbolic character in this bend because he is the rock of their family, because he is strong and dependable. Each character in the break away experiences different actions and changes in their relationship after losing the person they all loved the about.One conflict experienced in the play is the relationship between Katie and her aim before and after the death of Katies father. Katie and her breed begettert have the best relationship and at times it seems that Katie wishes that she wouldve been in the car accident with her father. This is a conflict because it seems as if Katie whitethorn blame her fetch for the death of her father for making him go out while she stayed at home and took care of Katie. This causes a lot of tension between Katie and her mother because she withal feels as though the death of her father might also be her fault.At the end of the play Katie and her mother appear to be contiguous to each other and her mother til now apologizes for the things shes done in the past and talks about Katies father. This is important because after eld of not really speaking about him it shows that their mother is just starting signal to cope with his death. Her mother states in the play I know you continuously thought I did everything wrong (pg. 251). This shows that even though she knows they didnt have the best relationship in the past that shes trying to be there for her and only wants the best for her.Katie and her comrade Joe has a typical brother and sister relationship they argue a lot but at the same time they care for each other. At times Joe even calls his sister Katie a brat but still offers to do things for her. The death of their father changed their relationship because Joe seems to be the person that now holds the family together. This appears to be Joes way of coping with his fathers death because he feels as if he has to be strong for both Katie and his mother and take on the new role of the man of the house. Joe What dya think?Mom The harmonys started You have to get to your seat Aw, mom. I told you not to read that stuff. You said it, didnt you? Y oure crying Come on glad. Happy Are you apt? See, shes happy. Everybodys happy. Its a happy twenty-four hour period. Lets go Lets go This refer is a great example of how Joe keeps everything together as everyone starts to breakdown he represents the new rock and strength of their family. Katies relationship with her father is the most important because out of everyone in their family she had the closest relationship with him.A major conflict in the story is that Katie after these past years still can come to terms with her fathers death. On her wedding day as shes preparing to walk down the aisle she in visions herself having a conversation with her father and reminiscing about all the good memories they shared. Katie says I dont understand youre supposed to be the one I can count on (pg. 247). This quote shows that even though Katie may not entirely get over the death of her father but she is slowly getting to the point where she is learning to deal with it.At the end of the pla y the conversation between Katie and her mother helps her come to terms with the death of her father because that was first time that they have actually had a conversation about him. Someone who hasnt lost person they really care about may not know how it feels emotionally to overcome the death of someone they love but death is hard to get over and not everyone gets over it quickly. The overall theme of these conflicts is that everyone learns to cope with the death of someone in their own way and at their own time. For Katie the wedding shows her starting a new beginning not only for her but for her family as well.
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