Dower and Dowry Confusion

discontinue and part confusion The dowery is a sum of money or other property which becomes payable by the husband to the married womanhood as an effect of marriage1. On the other hand, Dowry is a transaction amidst two parties involving cash, or other valuable articles such as unprecedented metals, gems, clothing, appliances, real estate, or goods for entertainment, made as a condition for launching a marriage contract2. The dowry system is not recognised in the religion or the law of the Muslim societies but has spread into it. 3 Conversely, Muslim law provides dower to enhance the status of women4. It is important to note that until in a flash authors confuse dower with dowry. Perhaps the aspect of womens property or stridhanam in Hindu law and dower as the exclusive property of the wife are seen as synonymous. When dowry is regarded as stridhanam or pre-mortem inheritance for women, contradictions arise and the equation of dowry with stridhanam has been disputed by sev eral authors.They argue that the spotlight is absolutely reverse, as dowry is not a gratuity to the wife or her exclusive property but the property of her in-laws. 5 Islam has legislated the giving of the dower by the husband to the wife in order to please the womans heart and to honour her. It is also meant to bring an end to what was through with(p) in the Days of Ignorance wherein she was wronged, exploited, despised and robbed of her wealth. The dower is a right but for the wife. It is her possession and none of her guardians or relatives whitethorn share any(prenominal) part of it6.No one has any power over her concerning how she wishes to dispose of it, as desire as she does so in a ratifiedly acceptable manner. She may give it away as a gift, she may lend it to others or she may give it in charity or do any other permissible acts she wishes with it7. But dowry is totally different. At clock people think that dower is some sort of acronym of dowry, which is literally i ncorrect. destiny is the money paid by the groom to his bride while dowry is trousseau, gift of money or valuables abandoned by the brides father to the groom at the time of the marriage.It is important to understand that there is absolutely no parity between dower and dowry with the former being a legal right and the latter being a tradition8. Dowry is predominantly a Hindu tradition carried on after the people of the subcontinent embraced Islam. Women are given the right of inheritance but there is no concept of dowry in Islam. If it was a part of our religion, our Holy Prophet (PBUH) must bemuse granted valuables to his only daughter Fatima on her marriage to Ali. Instead, Ali had to pay for the valima by selling his armour9.This problem has intensified to the extent that women in both India and Pakistan relegate suicide considering themselves burden on their families as they cant afford to give weighed down dowry or entertain the in-laws years after marriage. At time the girls family pays part of the dowry at the time of the marriage, promising to pay the tarry after the marriage. This stipulation causes a lot of grief and mistreatment to the girl and her family in particular if the payment is delayed10. &8212&8212&8212&8212&8212&8212&8212 1Monsoor, Taslima sexuality Equity and Economic Empowerment Family Law and Women in Bangladesh. Dhaka, p. 22 2 http//www. indiatogether. org/women/dowry/pledge. htm 3 Sivaramayya, B. Inequalities and the law. New Delhi 1984, p. 66 4 Monsoor, Taslima Gender Equity and Economic Empowerment Family Law and Women in Bangladesh. Dhaka, p. 47 5 Ibid 2 http//www. islamweb. net/emainpage/index. php? page=articles&id=97117 3 Ibid 4 http//jang. com. pk/thenews/feb2007-weekly/you-20-02-2007/ 5 Ibid 6 Ibid